Tuesday 11 December 2012

It's Miller Time!

December 11th, 2012 - Puri, Orissa, India

Hello good friends of OM!  

The second "letter" of the two here!

Wow it has been a disastrously long time since an email has been written.  I'm afraid this one is going to be very long!  I'm sending it all in one go, but I recommend reading it in several stages to thoroughly absorb the tale, unless you're really in a reading-power mode.

So Orion left you off with our amazing Annapurna trek.  When we finished the trek we took the bus back to Kathmandu for JAZZmandu - a week of Jazz in Nepal!!  We were excited.

By this time tourist season was begining to pick up speed in Nepal and the whiteys were arriving by the hundreds.  Prices were going up!  We tried to get our bus tickets for the same cheaper price we normally pay, and succeeded after some bargaining.  Unfortunately, this time of year, the cheapest price means the worst bus.

We hopped on the bus to be immediately seated, to our great dismay, in a toilet.  LITERALLY.  You know how buses have those two tiny little rooms at the very back with toilets in them?  Well this bus had those, only one was still a stinking, reaking toilet, and the other room had been emptied out and two seats had been installed.  This was were we sat.  There was absolutely NO legroom, the window barely opened, people seemed to think that we were a luggage compartment, and the toilet emited its rank fragrance only a foot away from us.  We gritted our teeth for the 9 hour ride.

Unfortunately (or fortunately?) for me, I was immediately car sick and had to move to the front of the bus where a two person bench squished 3 people.  Orion stayed in the back and pulled out his guitar to stay sane.  Hours later we arrived safely in Nepal.  I staggered from the bus feeling impossibly sick and extremely grumpy and met a smiling, excited Orion.  He was so happy to tell how GREAT the ride had been for him because he had written a new song!  Sure the toilet stank but he had SO MUCH FUN!  Well.  Lucky him.  Hahaha...

ANYWAY.  So we arrived in Kathmandu for JAZZmandu.  

ALSO.  I forgot to mention.. Our friends from VERNON, Shauna and Daniel, had just completed their bike trip across South East Asia.  They sold their bikes, and were flying to Nepal to do some trekking for a couple weeks before going home.  It just so happened to PERFECTLY line up that we were in Kathmandu right when they landed.  We met up with them right away and let them sleep on the floor of our hotel room for their first night.  We hung out with them for a few days before they headed off to trek.
So.  Jazzmandu. How legit can a Jazz festival be in a country like this?  We were pretty impressed honestly.  They had bands from all around the world playing at really fancy venues around the city.  The first night we decided to go see 'Suzy & 2' from Norway.  
Suzy & 2 is a trio that features the epic compositions of the band leader - obviously, Suzy, backed up by another vocalist who also plays melodica and glockenspiel, and a very talented and soulful jazz guitarist .  She had been living in Kathmandu for some time and had created a set featuring some very talented classical Nepali musicians: a singer, and a tabla player.  She also added a double bass player.  Suzy (forget her last name) then wrote songs for the new band striving to fuse jazz and the classical ragas (Indian musical scales) into one harmonious sound.  Combining impossible strange time signatures with haunting harmonies, melodic melodies, and creative rhythms, a soundscape was created that could carry one to a new dimension.  It was fantastic!
So that was sweet! The next big show was at a fancy resort and featured all the bands.  Despite the terrible sound engineering, most of the bands were fantastic.  We sat on the lawn on blankets just like at a Canadian music festival! How fun.  As darkness fell, the bands playing got more and more upbeat and dansable.  The party began!!!

Our favorite band BY FAR was a band called Rootman from Thailand.  They were a 8 piece mind-blowingly energetic funk fusion band.  The bass player was probably one of the most talented musicians I have ever seen EVER in my LIFE and he looked like he was about 15 (I'm sure he was a bit older though haha).  Though I was thrilled, Orion was EXPLODING with JOY.  So, I figured I would get him to describe the glories of this fabulous band so that you too may enjoy a taste of his enthusiasm.

"ROOTMAN.  WOW.  They are INSANE.  I don't want  to compare them to anyone because their originality transcends the material realm and borders on the spiritual, but imagine of a mind-blowing blend between Five Alarm Funk and The Cat Empire, with Victor Wooten playing bass.  Every single musician in the band is amazingly good, and as a whole they are tighter than the weave on the best Kashmiri pashmina shawl.  All the horns have their own style, and the solos build from succulently sensual sounds to a climax of madness.  The drummer is solid.  The DJ (Yes, they have a DJ.) shreds the scratching and adds subtly funk-ridden riddims to every song.  And the keyboard player is by far the best player, and perhaps musician, that I've ever seen, and perhaps heard.  He had a Nord Electro 3 on the bottom and a synth on top hooked up to a rack mounted sound module and some other crazy blinking boxes; he knows those instruments like the back of his hand.  He was constantly tweaking knobs and changing sounds and pushing his instruments to the very LIMIT, in every possible way.  He reminded me most of the the keyboard player from The Cat Empire, but less latin and more funky/jazzy, though he played both better than anything I've ever heard.  He played the gnarliest organ solo I've ever heard in my life that still gives me shivers when I even think of it!  Seriously, this guy is a world class player and band leader.  So mind expandingly good.  I didn't even think that someone could BE that good.  And then the bass player.  WOW.  He is basically a young version of Victor Wooten, but with his own style brought into his remarkable playing.  He can shred anything from the craziest, most difficult, funkiest solo to a simple one sixteenth note per bar bass line, but regardless of what he plays, it will be the deepest grooving, tastiest thing in the world.  He makes the best bass faces, yet is modest, and every time he thumbs the strings convulsions of joy rippled through the crowd.  He obviously looks up to Victor as his mentor, because he played all of the Wooten techniques (double thumbing, 64th note tapping and harmonics on every millimeter of the fret board, etc...) flawlessly and more.  As Marina and I watched him solo, our minds exploded in a symphony of funky goodness.  He is definitely also by far the best bassist, and possible musician that I've ever witnessed in the flesh.  Him and Victor Wooten would have a good time jamming.  I emailed a few music festivals in Canada telling them to GET ROOTMAN TO NORTH AMERICA NOW.  So maybe you'll all get to explode with joy at the sight and sound of them too.  I sincerely hope so.  I'd follow them around like a veritable "Dead-Head" if I didn't have life goals of my own...  I LOVE THEM."

So after Rootman we were sorely disappointed.  The next show was "Tito Puente Junior," the son of the legendary latin artist.  Sounds epic right?  IT WASN'T.  The guy had ZERO talent but an ego as huge as the SUN.  He proceeded to talk in his slightly irritating New Yorker accent for FAR too long about himself, and how great he was, and how great his country was, and how great his father was.  Then he gave all these shout outs to random American people that weren't even THERE and proceeded to tell everybody about how much he LOVED America.  We were so disgusted with this display that Orion was convincing me we should leave right then and there as to not taint his Rootman experience high.   But I LOVE a good latin band so I said we should stay until the band started to hear if it was good or not.  Finally Mr. Puente Jr. managed to cease his verbal diarrhea and the band started.  They weren't even GOOD!! GAH.  Tito Jr. played timbales (or at least stood behind them holding sticks) and when it came for his solo, I was impressed.  Impressed by how TERRIBLE he was!!!!  So we fled the scene.

The FINAL Jazzmandu show was similar to the last one, with a whole bunch of bands playing, but it was featuring only the BEST ones, whereas the last night, they had ALL the bands playing.  We basically went just to see Rootman, who were just as amazingly good as the last time.  There was also this absolutely ridiculous band from France who were old washed out dudes attempting to mix jazz fusion with dubstep while wearing disco space suits.  I did not enjoy it, but my eyes were thoroughly occupied trying to assimilate all the stimulus.  Orion took a video that we will post if there is ever decent enough internet.  It was a sight to behold.
Anyway so that was Jazzmandu!  All in all, despite its inevitable quirks, it was such a joy to witness real talent and real live music.  After months of deprivation, our musical souls drank deep and basked in the glory of deafening drums and booming bass.  We were fulfilled!

 Shauna and Daniel came with us to most of the shows which was fun.  How cool it is to meet people from your own home town across the other side of the world!  As well as that, our dear friends Mindy and James who we met on the trek were also in Kathmandu waiting their flight to Thailand.  It was so much fun hanging out with all 6 of us!  When we all finally went our seperate ways, a tiny hole was left in our hearts where they had been.  Miss you guys!! :)

BUT!  We were not alone for long!!!!  Not but a few days later, we were overjoyed to welcome to our strange life more loved ones from our beloved home:  Caren and Doug!!!!!!  (For those of you who are unaware, Caren and Doug are Orion's parents.)  After a joint effort from all family and friends, they were convinced to leave their busy lives and join us for a month of travelling.  How exciting!
We met them around midnight and they settled into their hotel room.  We stayed up til 1 or 2 in the morning catching up and sharing stories.  Fun!!

With their limited time of 6 weeks and their long list of crazy things to see/do, we set about making a grand scheme for our time together.  Immediately we booked bus tickets to Pokhara, to pay a visit to Mailadai at our favorite place, Hotel Open Air, a must see on ANY trip to Nepal.  That night, Doug and Caren went to an orphanage that they sponsor to see how things were running and meet the managers.  They were invited to eat a dinner cooked by the orphan children.  How sweet!!!  But for some strange reason, as they were tucking in to the meal, their alarm bells of intuition began to clang away.  They ignored them.

The next day...  They were SO SICK.  It was horrible.  I won't go into the details, but I will say that they were up all night and weren't any better in the morning.  We quickly rescheduled our bus tickets, and dropped any plans of doing a small trek, and focused intensely on healing.  What a way to start a trip!

When the time came for us to catch the bus to Pokhara, C and D managed the trip with equanimity.  Though every tiny bump of the bus ride (and there were many) jolted their aching stomachs and guts with stabbing pains, they never complained and wore their bright smiles the whole time.  EPIC.

Though getting to Maila's is slightly difficult (especially the 20 minute hike up the mountain) when we finally arrived, we were all overjoyed to be there.  We planned maybe 2 nights there, and immediately upon arrival changed it to 5 nights.  With warm (but not hot) sun, clean, fresh air, and gorgeous views of the Annapurnas and Phewa Lake, it was the perfect place to heal.  Soon D and C were in tip top shape and ready to travel!!

And travel we did!!!!!  Our destination was Ranchi in India, where we were planning to attend a week long retreat at the SRF/YSS ashram.  It was to be a grueling journey with many different modes of transportation.  A hike down the mountain, a boat ride across the lake, a 9 hour local bus ride to the border, walking across the dusty town of Sunauli into India, a jeep ride to Gorakhpur, another freezing cold local bus ride right through the middle of the madness of the festival Diwali to Varanasi, and finally a train ride to Ranchi.   We braced ourselves for the 3 days of sleepness night and constant travel.

The bus to border was uneventful.  Everyone was uncomfortable on the oddly shaped seats except Caren who exclaimed how wonderful it was to finally sit on seats the right size for her short stature.  Everyone else's heads lolled off the backs of the seats with every jolt of the bus...

At Sunauli, we got our Nepal visas stamped out and started to walk through the archway that said "Welcome to India."  Diwali, the festival of lights, was on its last and most eventful day.  As we walked into India, a giant story high stack of blown speakers filling the entire back of a shipping truck blasted festival music as a welcome to us.  With plugged ears and shouts to the officers, we officially entered the country of India!  Oh the insanity.   It had been more than 25 years for Doug and Caren since the last time they were here, and they were excited to re-experience this country of duality: the most chaos the human senses can handle, yet with the deepest places of spiritual peace on the earth; the poorest people with nothing to their name, as well as the most luxurious hotels and resorts and restaurants and expensive clothes and shopping malls; the filthy streets with stinking heaps of reeking, rotting garbage with starving animals picking through the piles for scraps; yet the cleanest, most beautiful women, sparkling beyond beauty, dazzling all with their brightly coloured glittering saris, jingling shiny bangles and elaborate anklets, impossible earrings and necklaces and rich silky thick black braids running down their entire backs.  And so many more opposing opposites!  I could describe pages and pages of it.  But I have a story to tell, so I'll get on with it.

We hopped in a packed jeep and headed to Gorakhpur, a filthy city with a major train and bus station.  I was so carsick (yet again) from the bus ride to the border that it was a relief to sit in the jeep with the full view of the road in front of me.

At Gorakhpur, we knew there were no trains available to Varanasi, but we hoped to find a slightly more comfortable tourist bus.  We thought it would be fair to our bodies for it would be another 9 hour journey.  No such luck.  Local bus it was!!!  And an all nighter.  
The bus left at about 8pm in the height of the last night of Diwali.  For the festival, everyone builds a statue of the goddess Lakshmi at the beginning of the week (or however long it is, I can't quite remember) and parades her around in the back of little trucks blasting music.  People gather around the statue and speakers and have little mini travelling raves.  The vehicles drive slowly, the people follow, dancing and cheering wildly, setting off fireworks, throwing flowers, etc.  Some set-ups were so elaborate they had strobe lights!  It looked fun.

So we were driving through that every 5 minutes or so, stuck in traffic jam after traffic jam.  Just when we thought we were almost free of it, we reached a big bridge.  Normally there was about 8 lanes, but half had been closed off.  On the last night of the festival, the tradition has it that everyone throws their Lakshmi statues into the river.  How sweet.  So everyone was doing just that.  And in such a populated country, "everyone" is A LOT of people.  We were held up, stuck crawling slower than a cripple could walk, for around an hour.  On the plus side it gave us plenty of opportunity to watch the madness of the festival from a safe distance.  It was sheer insanity.

Finally the bus got on the road again, and for some strange reason, it was FREEEEEZZZINNNGG cold.  I had on all my layers and scarfs and socks and sarongs and was still so cold.  We were all so cold.  It definitely added to the difficulty in our attempts to sleep.  But some how we managed to get a hour or two of sleep each.  Just enough to keep us alive.  Haha.

We arrived in Varanasi around 3:30 or 4 in the morning.  Way too early.  The city was completely asleep save for one enthusiastic rickshaw driver who happily drove us to the Old City: home of the ancient bathing and burning ghats on the holy Ganges river.  We had plans to go the Main Ghat, find a room, sleep for a couple hours, and then explore the city.  When we arrived at the ghat, people were sleeping all over, but I couldn't bring myself to lie down.  It was just too filthy.  We sat on our packs while Doug went to look for a room.  He didn't come back for a LONG time.  We had a cup of chai from the only other awake person on the ghat and hung out with a stinky dog who was DYING to climb into your lap for pets.  He was cute, but when the dogs are that dirty, its best to keep them from doing that.  All around us, people slept stretched out on sheets laid over the steps of hard stone.  Some had a little umbrella like shelter and a couple blankets.  Some had nothing.  I swear an Indian can sleep anywhere...
Finally Doug came back.  He said there were no rooms.  Every one was full, way too expensive, or the owners were sleeping and not answering.  AND he had ended up getting lost.  Haha.  So the sleeping idea was out.  What to do?  We decided to simply keep sitting on the ghats and wait for the sunrise.

What an idea!!!!!!  I'm so happy we did that.  It may be one of my most special and favorite memories of all my travels.  
Facing the rising sun, behind the Ganges, we watched as the ancient city came alive.  Slowly, slowly a few people began to come down to the river to bathe.  At first it was mostly women coming in groups, washing their hair and bodies in the filthy river.  Then the sadhus and other spiritual people started to show up, as well as the beggars and cripples and homeless children, displaying their amputated limbs, begging bowls, and barely clothed bodies.  Right around the time we saw the first tourists (oh how out of place their bewildered, overwhelmed, and slightly terrified white faces looked!), the touts showed up as well, selling anything and everything with annoying and elaborate schemes to draw you into their traps.  As well as the humans, the animals came.  Cows rose from their sleeping places and mingled with the crowds, dogs looked for abandoned scraps of precious food, running between and around the legs of people in packs, protecting and maintaining their territory, monkeys lurked at the tops of pillars and buildings, shrieking at each other and at the world in general, guarding their tiny hideous babies, and the odd cat slunk silently across the top of a wall, or along the edge of a building.

And the amount of people using the river!  Washing, bathing, swimming, boating, making offerings, everything.  It was absolutely filthy!  Besides all the undefinable muck floating in the gray water, there were thousands of little candle offerings comprised of a leaf folded into a plate, a couple marigolds, and a little tea light.  People would send them off into the river with a prayer to the Mother Ganga.  There were also various limbs and body parts of what was once statues of deities having been throw in the water to slowly dissolve.

We hired a boatman to row us down the river to see the ghats.  Every ghat had a hundred people devotionally washing away their karma, and every ghat was filthy.  People were cupping handfuls of water and slurping it up like it was the elixir of life.  What a little faith and devotion can do for a person!

Our boat took us past the burning ghats where we saw multiple bodies blazing away, heads and feet exposed.  We later discussed that although it would be difficult to watch your loved one burn up before your very eyes, it would also be a very helpful aid in letting go.  Our culture is so scared of death!  In India it happens everywhere, all the time, and the people have devised much more powerful methods of dealing with the pain.  Death is but a part of life...

So with the frailty and transitory nature of life heavy on our minds, we returned to the ghats to find some food.  We dove into the endless maze of twisting turning alleys wide enough only for about two people across and certainly no vehicles.  Doug led the way confident on his inherent sense of direction trying to take us into the main tourist area.  Unfortunately the winding streets were a little more confusing than we expected and we somehow ended up on a road outside the Old City!  Equally insane, we dodged the usual honking cars and rickshaws and motorbikes and cows and people and dogs and garbage and cow patties and puddles of black slimey muck and managed to find a good local restaurant just thriving with life.

I forgot to mention a very important detail to add to your mental image of all this:  As I mentioned earlier, we decided in the end not to get a hotel room.  That meant carrying our packs everywhere for the whole day.  For Doug and Caren, travelling only for 6 weeks with smaller packs, it was not such an issue.  For Orion and I it meant lugging around our insanely heavy much larger packs and instruments.  And just to add another element, my pack doesn't quite fit me properly...  So that was fun!!

Anyway.  So we ate an epic local meal at the insanely cheap local prices.  What a relief to Orion and I with our dwindling funds to be back to real cheap prices of India after our 2 months in expensive Nepal!  We were thrilled. 

After heading back to the ghats to sit and enjoy the madness for a little while longer, we headed to the famous Blue Lassi for a treat before our departure for Ranchi.  The Lassi is yogurt (in India its called curd), hand blended, that can be plain, sweet, salty, or mixed up with any kind of fruit.  The Blue Lassi makes the most creative ones I've ever seen!  Served in one-use little ceramic cups (to be broken on the streets after use), hand smashed and blended up before our very eyes by a man humbly seated on the floor, and decorated with a few pieces of fruit on top, it is truly a feast!  We sat in the tiny alcove of a shop and watched the bustling alley life go past us.  Varanasi, being the best place a Hindu can die, is full of funerals.  Every 5 mintues or so, a procession of wailing and singing people would go by with a body of a deceased love one propped up on their shoulders, decorated with glittery fabrics.  What a site to behold!

It was time to leave the amazing sites of Varanasi and head to Ranchi for our meditation retreat.  It had been but a short day for us there, but we had managed to cram in quite a few things and we felt satisfied.  Saying goodbye to the holy city, we hopped aboard our sleeper train completely exhausted.  After our previous 2 days of sleepless travel, we went straight to bed though it was only about 5 o'clock.

Ranchi!!!!  We arrived safe and sound, here to attend the "Sharad Sangam" - a week long SRF/YSS retreat with group meditations and lectures and kirtans and other fun stuff - with 1700 other people.  The perfect peace of the ashram was absolutely EVERYTHING we needed to recharge our bodies, minds and souls.

Next stop was the other ashram in Calcutta, in Dakshineswar.  We hopped on a very enjoyable train ride where we hung out the doors and let the wind blow on our faces and tasted many Indian snacks of sprouts and lentils and other fun things for under 10 Rupees (25 cents). 

So Dakshineswar.  (Dakshineswar is a sort of suburb of Calcutta.)  The ashram is situated on the Ganges close to the amazing Kali Temple where many a saint has meditated on the Divine Mother.  This is also the city where Paramahansa Yogananda spent years of his childhood.  We planned to visit many of places he mentioned in his book Autobiography of a Yogi.

First and foremost, we paid a visit to the Kali Temple.  Kali is the fearsome aspect of Divine Mother in her destructive force.  She is naked and her skin is black, a long red tongue sticking out of her mouth, a thick black curtain of hair hanging to her knees, a garland of human skulls around her neck, a girdle of human hands around her waste, with 4 arms, one holding a bowl of fire, the other empty and gesturing lovingly to her devotees, another waving a bloody scimitar, and the fourth grasping a severed human head by the hair.  She is depicted dancing wildly across the chest of a sleeping Lord Shiva.  Every one of those strange features represents some deeper meaning of this aspect of the Divine.  In  other words, she is EPIC.  (Google Goddess Kali for more information!)

We meditated in front of the statue in the shade for a while, and then headed off to Ramakrishna's room.  Sri Ramakrishna Paramahansa was a crazy enlightened saint who used to live in a room in the temple, caring for the grounds and the statue of Kali, and dancing wildly around in Divine ecstacy.  Across the Ganges and down the river a ways is the Ramakrishna Mission (called Belur Math) where disciples of the master set up an ashram of sorts with temples and a museum in honour of his life, where we visited later on in the week.

The Ganges were far cleaner here (though still not "clean" by any means) and inspired by the fearsome goddess and her devotees, Orion and Doug decided to take a dip in the river.  After purchasing lungis to wear in traditional bathing fashion (the sarong like wrap worn by Indian men), they took a holy dip.  Both of them claimed it felt amazing and I was inspired to go in myself later on.   Orion was skeptical of the river's powers at first, but as we walked home to the ashram, he felt surprising lightness and elation of spirit.  This feeling of stillness convinced him otherwise.

We also visited #4 Garpar Road where Paramahansa Yogananda lived as a boy.  We reviewed all the stories in his book and it was fun to place them in their exact locations in the house - "This is the window he dropped his sack of clothes out of when he was trying to run away to the Himalayas," "This is the attic that he used to meditate in!" etc.  It was fun!!

Nearby, is the ashram of the "Levitating Saint" also mentioned in the Autobiography of a Yogi.  We paid a visit to the home of the saint which had now been converted into a tiny ashram by his discples, and meditated in the room where the yogi achieved mahasamadhi (conscious exit from the body.)

 On the last day in Calcutta, Orion, Doug and I got up at 5am and headed to the Ganges for a morning dip.  After two big trips in India, I can finally say I have officially been in the famous river!!!  It wasn't so bad.  Before dipping your head under water, you just have to splash away all the debris floating around you so it doesn't get stuck in your hair when you come up.  Once that's done, you're good to go!!  It was so cold that early in the morning, but I thoroughly enjoyed it!  I'd do it again!  But maybe I'll need a few more years of travelling in India before I can be convinced to go in in Varanasi...

So our last stop on our journey with Doug and Caren was Puri, Orissa.   The only train available was this super fancy, super deluxe chair car that would normally be outside of the realm of Orion and my's budget.  With a little financial aid from Orion's Grandma Alixe, as a present brought from home with D and C (THANK YOU ALIXE!!), we treated ourselves to a 2nd class AC train ride.  
The seats were SO COMFY and featured pockets and water bottle holders and they even reclined!  Phenomenal.  We were served a "snack" of tea, too-white white bread with one meagre slice of too-perfect processed cheese, a juice box, and a package of ketchup.  Hmm.  Later we were served some very hard crunchy bread sticks and some soup to dip them in.  Much better!  Then dinner was pretty delicious!  Paneer and dahl and rice and chapati, and a little sweet called Soan Papdi for dessert.  AND they gave us a bottle of water!  All this included!  What a treat!

We arrived in Puri!  Without even the slightest difficulty we found a good hotel, and woke up refreshed and ready to explore the next day.  As usual Doug and Caren got up earlier than us, and when we emerged from our room, we were surprised to find a soaking wet Doug standing before and telling us of the amazing swimming in the ocean!!

OCEAN!!!!!

I was thrilled.  We threw on our bathing suits (for me, shorts and a T-shirt...) and headed down there to splash amid the waves.  
The waves were HUGE.  No ordinary wimpy little splashing was done.  Rather, we were body surfing and riding the waves into shore, or ducking under them as they were cresting to keep from getting slammed into the ground underwater, or, if our timing wasn't just perfect, getting completely owned by the waves - knocked off our feet, dragged around underwater, smashed into the sand, and thrown on the shore.  ITS SO FUN!!!  It sounds terrifying, but its really just pure fun!  As long as you keep your eye on the shore so you're aware if you start drifting, and your eye on the waves so you don't get crushed without warning, and stay always where you can touch, AND swim with someone else, its all fine and dandy.  Since arriving, we haven't missed one day of swimming.  Its like our daily ritual.

YOU HAVE NO IDEA how HAPPY I AM to get to see and swim in and enjoy the ocean.  Since before even LEAVING on this trip I have been itching and aching to get in the waves and see the beach and the water and palm trees and sand and hot sun and YES.  I love it.  And for Doug and Caren, Puri being the last stop before they headed back to Delhi, what a way to end a trip!  With phenomenal ocean swimming and tropical sun.

That being the highlight of our time here, we also did other things.  We visited the mahasamadhi mandir of Swami Sri Yukteswar Giri, the guru of Paramahansa Yogananda, to meditate several times.  What an amazing powerful place!!  The energy just ZAPS you.  

Puri is also home to the famous Jagannath temple, Lord of the Universe.  The god is depicted as a strange cute black smiley face which I could never quite understand.  I strongly recommend Googling this visage so you can understand what I mean.  Unfortunately the temple is for Hindus only, so us foreigners couldn't enter.  Instead we climbed up this ancient decaying building next door for a view of the whole temple area from the roof. 

 The building was like something out of a movie!  The jungle was taking it back to Nature...  Walls were crumbling, vines were crawling up and wrapping around pillars and windows, trees and grasses were growing in the strangest places, and many a dark room lurked in the shadows.  After exploring this strange world, we entered an even stranger "library" where a man asked us to donate 200 Rupees for his "library!"  There was one or two ancient book shelves full of ancient books of nothing and everything in no particular order, with titles like "The History of the Universe" and "Great Sages of the World."  It was all very surreal. 

We climbed up the stairs after donating 20 Rupees instead of 200, and enjoyed the madness for awhile.  SO MANY PEOPLE EVERYWHERE.  Everywhere you looked! People! People! People! Crowds and crowds and crowds of them! EVERYWHERE.  Orion sniped people with his 20x camera zoom and we enjoyed watching people, instead of having them watch us as it normally is.
The next day, we decided to rent motorbikes and ride to the famous Konark Sun Temple.  We had no real plans of going into the temple, more just of enjoying the ride and looking for a good beach along the way.

The bikes were slow, oh so slow, but it was so fun!  The roads weren't too busy and we putted along, enjoying the wind in our faces.  Along the way we saw this amazing workshop where men were carving incredible sculptures out of stone!!  We pulled over to take a look.

Words can't even describe!  I must have taken a hundred pictures, so when we eventually post them, I would highly recommend looking at them.  I saw a man finishing up a statue of the elephant god, Ganesh, twice the size of himself, and I saw another man starting a similar statue from nothing but a solid hunk of rock!  There were all sorts of gods, Shiva, Ganesh, Krishna, Kali, Saraswati, Lakshmi, even Buddha, as well as Indian dancers and musicians, lions, mothers with children, and even an exact replica of the ancient Wheel of Vishnu, carved into the 800 year old Konark Sun Temple.  All the statues were life size or bigger.  I took a picture of Orion standing next to a Buddha meditating in lotus posture that's as high as him!!  The faces and skin of the statues looked soft and curvaceous despite their original state of jagged hard rock.  Some were Orissan pink stone, some sandstone, and some even marble.  And it was so amazing to see the men carving and working on the statues.  To see the start product, and then the finished products, and their tools being nothing but a little nail with a flattened tip and a hammer.  WOW.

Caren and Doug found a much smaller, but still extremely heavy, statue of the goddess Lakshmi to take home.  It was so amazing to get to meet the actual artists who carved it!  And to see what they were capable of!  Wow...

We continued on our way, but stopped again when we found a promising beach.  And it was PERFECT.  Nobody for miles except a few fisherman, with perfect white sands, and rolling gentle waves.  We swam for a couple hours at least!  Unlike the beach in Puri, though the waves here were big, they were gentle, and I enjoyed floating on the surface and letting them crash into me.  The body surfing wasn't as great, but the frolicking was PERFECT.

Eventually we finally made it to Konark extremely hungry and a little sun stroked.  By the time we arrived, the only person who felt like seeing the temple was Doug.  I had been before, Caren wasn't much into temple viewing, and Orion was too hungry.  So us three sat and had a veg thali while Doug did a mega speed tour of the temple alone.  

By the time he finished, it was almost sunset, and not keen on riding on the roads in the dark, we headed home to Puri.  We arrived at night exhausted.  All in all a great day!!!

Another day, we rented bicycles and road to the Jagannath temple again, in search of the famous "Puri Cheesecake."  Not like our cheesecake, it is a mix of paneer, cardamom and sugar, fried into a little cake over an open flame.    Unfortunately it was closed when we finally found it, but we weren't too disappointed.  It was more about the experience of riding bikes through the madness of Indian traffic!  Near the temple, the hoards of people and cows and rickshaws and EVERYTHING crowd the streets, and we would weave in and out of it all, every second perilously close to crashing.   It would seem as if you would be riding toward a crash, with no space for you to pass through, and at the last possible moment, a dog would turn its head to clear an opening, or a cow would push its little calf aside, or a rickshaw would swerve the other way, and an opening always appeared.  The Indian streets are like a living, breathing entity, and  the traffic is like the blood flowing through its clogged veins...

Instead of cheesecake we road to the beach for ice cream.  What a treat on a scorching hot day!  We were all looking a little sun burnt so we decided to head home after a quick visit to the famous "Orissa Bakery."  On the way home to the hotel that night, we were walking quickly to find some dinner for our hungry bellies, when we heard a small voice from a dark corner offer, "Cheesecake?"  We immediately spun on our heels to see a smiling man humbly squatting behind a small table selling the very treat we had been hunting for not 2 minutes from our own hotel!  To his happy surprise we bought 400 grams of the sugary sweet cake for a post dinner treat.  How lucky for us!  And how lucky for him!!

And then it was time for the inevitable goodbye.  As I said to Orion, never before on my travels have I felt homesick until Doug and Caren came to visit and then left!  Orion said, "I know, its because they brought home here!" 

Still in the same hotel, we would expect them to knock on our door at any second from their room across from us, but it remained empty and locked.  Swimming was not quite the same, neither was eating at the "Greenland Garden Restaurant," and neither was anything else we had been doing in Puri.  It was so SAD!!!

They left yesterday morning at about 5 am for their flight back to Delhi, and left Orion and I in Puri for another 2 days before our train far south to Chennai.  It was so sad to see them go... :(  Though we have each other, we are feeling quite lonely since their departure, and are ready to leave Puri for some new scenery down south.  Us humans love to set up little homes and have companionship.  How sad it is to lose it right when it just got all set up.  

BUT.  We are coping with our loss well.  Last night we visited the bustling night market on the beach and had a cup of chai while watching the waves crash to the shore.  The white waves stood out against the black ocean and sky which melted into one, giving the impression that we were seated with a perfect view of the edge of the earth.  Orion bought the traditional dhoti wrap and is trying to figure out how to wear it (I'll get back to you on that one!) and we went swimming, which was still fun.

Tomorrow night we have a 20 hour train journey all the way to Chennai, where we plan to spend 3 days in Tiruvannamalai, and then hop on another train to Kerala.  There we hope to find the perfect tropical paradise to spend our final days in India.  And who knows what the HECK is happening after that... We certainly don't!  We'll get back to you on that one as well...

And I THINK.... That's EVERYTHING.  Its amazing.  But yes, I think I covered pretty much everything.  Its been a fabulous, fantastic month and travelling with Doug and Caren was a BLAST.  We extend an open invitation to anyone else who wants to come visit us and get a taste of our crazy lives. :)

For those of you who actually finished reading this email to the very end... I thank you!  I enjoy writing these and it thrills me to think that some one out there actually enjoys reading them!  And for those of you in Vernon, give D and C a big hug from us when they arrive!!!!  And make sure you ask to see all the amazing treasures and photos they acquired along their travels...

Until next time... (which hopefully won't be as long of a wait as this time...)

OM! 

Marina (& Orion)

Monday 29 October 2012

Magical, Mysterious, Majestic Mountains: The Trek to Annapurna Base Camp

October 29th, 2012 - Kathmandu, Nepal

Hello all!

It's Orion...attempting to cover the last two or three weeks of sheer excitement!  Here goes....it's gonna be huge.

Kathamandu and the Indian visa situation worked out much easier than we expected.  At the end of it all, we somehow ended up spending a week in the Thamel area, but we got a ton of other errands done too, which was fantastic, and lightened our baggage (literally).  We sent a parcel home full of gifts and goodies, which we found out recently that it actually made it!  Wonderful.  The visa place wouldn't actually give us our visas, but they took our paperwork and told us to come back on October 29th to pick them up.  It was easy going, especially with a few bribes to the officers so that we could skip the line.  Sneaky!

In Kathmandu, we decided that we were going to do a trek.  After a bit of research we decided on the Annpurna Sanctuary trek.  It's slightly shorter than the circuit, and more endearing to me especially because I LOVE getting right into the alpine.  Being at the base of Annapurna I, the 10th highest mountain in the world, only 800m less than Everest, seemed quite appealing.

We arrived in Pokhara with plans to leave the next day on a local bus to start the trek. We ended up leaving one day behind schedule because we needed to buy a bunch of mountain sanctuary climbing permits, and the office was closed on the first day. Regardless, we got everything sorted out and left without any issues. 

Another note of preparation: we don't have boots with us traveling, because who wants/needs boots when you're going to such hot countries?!  But regardless of how hot a country is, when you get up to 4000 meters, it's going to be cold and probably snowy.  However, I don't have sandals, I have CHACOS.  And Marina doesn't have sandals either, she has a toe protected open shoe made by Ahnu.  So we weren't too worried.  Chacos are the shit.  I love them.  And I'll be damned if I let a bit of cold and wet weather try to defeat my love for them!  Anyway, we tried on a bunch of boots in Pokhara just to see what was available, and they were all the worst thing ever, and like $30 which would be a total waste, and my chacos had 10x better soles and support and EVERYTHING than all of them put together.  So we asked an honest guy at one shop where Marina scored a real Mountain Hardwear 900 fill down jacket for $30 (another story for another time) what his opinion was, and he thought we'd be fine in sandals, as long as we had socks.  I said, "They're not sandals, they're Chacos," and then we bought a bunch of wool socks from him and headed for the Himalayas.

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DAY 1: Pokhara ( - Phedi - Pothana
           Hike time: 3hrs

           We got up at a reasonable hour, checked out, left our bags of things that we didn't want to carry with us (instruments included, sadly), and hopped on a local bus headed to the trailhead we had chosen, Phedi.  It was a little less than an hour, and we dismounted groggily from the crammed bus with difficulty to see a strip of a few restaurants in the middle of nowhere, with a steep stone staircase headed straight up the mountain.  We took a timing photo (we don't have watches, but our cameras have clocks), fixed my trekking pole that had broken in the first five seconds of its use with duct tape, and headed up the mountain.

Over the course of the day we walked up, and up, and up, hundreds (or thousands) of stone steps.  We rose from Pokhara's 800m altitude to Pothana's at 1900m.  We began to feel the familiar symptoms of mild Acute Mountain Sickness (AMS) when we stopped for the night.  It was a good thing we didn't rise any higher.  Crazy that we get affected so much.  Marina's lucky because I always develop the symptoms first, and then several hours later it hits her.  She gets a bit of a warning so she can hydrate herself and prepare mentally.  But this was nothing like Leh; it was nice and mild, and we were acclimatized by morning.

"Trekking" in Nepal is definitely not roughing it!  Contrary to the backpacking that we're familiar with in Canada, you can actually get your cravings for delicious food fulfilled by the villages that dot the path regularly throughout the day.  No need to squat in the snow and stir a pot of gruel in the morning outside your frosty tent or igloo like we're used to.  You can get delicious yak cheese pizza, fresh apple strudel, or the classic refillable dal bhat, for a price.  And the prices keep rising.  The higher your altitude, the more you pay.  But everything's the same price, so you don't feel too bad about it.  The view of Machhapuchhre makes you forget about money pretty quickly.  Anyway, I'll get to the details in the summary of the next few days...

It was a short but fulfilling day. It sprinkled a little and we didn't get any views because of the clouds, but it felt good to get the muscles going.  The trek had begun!

DAY 2: Pothana - Jhinudanda
           Hike time: 6hrs, 40mins

           We woke up on mountain time, aka just after sunrise, feasted, and hit the trail.  We had garlic soup and lemon-ginger tea, which the locals claim is good for AMS, and we both agree 100%.  Several times over the course of our trek we felt the symptoms of AMS, had the faithful tea and soup, and felt immediately better.

The day was an epic journey of up and down savage staircases, with relative flats in between.  We stopped for an hour long lunch in Landruck which was a nice break for the knees and we enjoyed an amazing pizza.  The end of the day was that hardest, when we went alllllll the way down to the bottom of a valley, crossed the river, and then hiked straight up steeeeeep stairs for over an hour.  We felt triumphant at our pace setting skills when we crested the top of a staircase and saw the first guesthouse with the subheading, "Jhinu," in proud lettering.  

Jhinu, or Jhinudana, or Jhinudanda, is famed for the natural hot springs that are a 15 minute walk away.  We decided to skip them that night as our knees couldn't take any more pain, and hit them up the next morning right before heading out. 

The descent from Pothana was grueling, but we were rewarded with our first views of the mountains!  We only glimpsed them before it clouded over for the rest of the day, but the views brought shouts of, "Epic!" and, "Look at how BIG it is!" to our throats.  Through the ever-changing clouds, a savage snowy rock face rose impossibly high to an epic peak. It was humbling to know that the peak that we were craning our necks to see the peak of was at least five kilometers higher than we were standing.  We were in awe at the simple HUGENESS of it.  Amazing.

We also crossed several cable suspension bridges over rushing glacier rivers throughout the day, and saw many cascading, majestic, fountain-like waterfalls misting the picturesque rice fields.  The relative flatness was a gift to our knees at the river bottom. 

It was a successful day.

DAY 3: Jhinudanda - Bamboo
            Hike time: 6hrs, 30mins

            "The third day is always the worst."
I told this to our new friends from Seattle / San Francisco, America, Mindy and James over breakfast.  We had originally thought that they were from Vancouver, based on their accents and slang, but we were wrong.  Apparently the whole north-west coast time zone has pretty much the same manner of speech.  Makes sense. 
We were all sore, and had an even "sorer" day too look forward to, based on my statement above.  But in my experience, the new muscle starts building up on the third night, so the next day we had fresh legs to look forward to.  We parted ways, fully expecting to never see each other again, as is common while traveling.  Little did we know that we would spend almost every day on the same schedule through the rest of the trek and beyond, and would become good friends!  They started the hike to Bamboo after our unintentionally late breakfast, and Marina and I jogged down to the hot springs.

The hot springs are really more like warm springs, but in every other way they are ideal.  The symphony of jungle sounds along with the rushing river would make for a perfect "yoga-relaxation" CD.  As you sit in the beautiful slate tiled pools, it is easy to get lost in the peace.  The water wasn't hot enough for a life risking jump in the rushing glacier river a few steps away, but it was pleasant and infinitely soothing to the sore "day 3 muscles."  

And humans aren't the only ones who get to enjoy the natural heat!  A big pack of black-faced langur monkeys roam nearby.  We noticed them from a distance, and they approached at a gallop when signaled by their leader.  At first we were frightened and stood up to fight them off, but then we realized that they were totally wild monkeys and weren't dangerous; they just wanted to share the pools with us.  We retreated to the pool farther uphill so we could watch them, and they approached one by one and licked the green algae off the rocks in the warm water.  Most of them were too afraid to come close, but one big monkey, perhaps the leader, was brave enough to come within a few meters of us.  He kept looking up sketchily at us as he ate, but he was calm enough, and we took the opportunity to take a ton of photos.  Another monkey had a super young baby hanging on her belly, and the baby kept looking at us and screeched in such a terrified way. "Mommmmyyy! Run away! Scary humans! Wahhhh!"  It was quite cute. The mom ignored her baby of course; she knew she had nothing to fear.  Luckily people are nicer to animals in Nepal (unlike India) so they are protected by the locals at the hot spring, yet they stay wild.  It's really nice.  We enjoyed a private bath with the monkeys, then set out on the road again.

The hike started with the Chomrong stairs, a gruelingly steep uphill staircase straight up to the top of the mountain where the village of Chomrong sits.  It is one of the steepest parts of the trek...perfect for day three.  However, Chomrong is famous for its apple pie and chocolate cake, so we were rewarded handsomely when we reached the top.  We had a super long lunch and then, realizing that we still had four hours of hiking to go and that sunset was near, we set off at a fearsome pace.  Straight down again to the valley bottom, then straight back up, and three hours later we were at Sinuwa.  We almost stopped there, as we were quoted another 2+ hours by a few different people.  Instead, we kicked it into high gear and practically jogged the whole way to Bamboo.  We made it in one hour, helped by a family of seriously epic goats who allowed us to herd them for the last twenty minutes, and happily collapsed on our beds (we had four in this room for some reason, haha).

The price of food just kept on rising, but it's hard to put a price on a hot meal that will heal your pleading muscles. We had dinner with Mindy and James and hit the hay early.  Tomorrow we'd be headed to much higher altitudes.

DAY 4: Bamboo - Deurali
            Hike time: 4hrs, 15mins

            We rose 900m on this day!  We went from 2300m in Bamboo to 3200m in Deurali.  Pretty sweet.  The hiking time itself wasn't that long, but we were feeling the altitude symptoms a little again when we got higher, so we took it super slow and took a few breaks for GORP (Good Old Raisins and Peanuts - but embellished of course).  The path basically followed the valley and rose "slowly" up.  We were done with stairs pretty much!  We rose steadily, but it didn't feel as strenuous as the days before, partly because of the path and partly because of our new muscle, as I predicted.  Everyone said they felt stronger in the morning and throughout the day.

We broke the tree line and entered the alpine, which was a treat.  We crossed epic rivers originating from the snows above that shot off the huge cliffs as amazing waterfalls before crushing their way down to meet the river below us.  The flowers adorning the meadows were wonderful as always, and most of all, the sheer, insane, hugeness of the mountains around us blew our minds.  We could rarely see the big glaciated one because we were in such a steep valley, but even the "small" ones are gigantic and incomprehensible in their magnitude and power.

Thought from the day: "Why haven't these countries learned about insulation?!  The houses are concrete bunkers just like in Kathmandu or South India.  NOT ideal."

That night I went outside and blocked out the lights from the guesthouse and was blown away by the hulking black silhouettes ascending so high into the sky.  It seemed as though the mountains around me would meet at the top and enclose me in a giant cave.  To top it off, a sliver of a moon peeked out from wayyyy at the end of the valley.  Beautiful.

DAY 5: Deurali - Machhapuchhre Base Camp (M.B.C.)
           Hike time: 2hrs, 15mins

            We got to "Destination #1" on this day, the first base camp, and it made all the fog and sore muscles worth it a million times over!  The hike continued up the valley and we rose to 3700m at M.B.C., where we were rewarded with stunning early afternoon views (we took the opportunity of a short hiking day to sleep in and hang out for a while in Deurali).  The hike was beautiful as always, but uneventful.  At the top we found our friends Mindy and James waiting for us, who hadn't been so lazy in the morning, and we marveled together at the view.  On one side, Machhapuchhre rose like an immense arrowhead piercing the sky.  A sharp ridge descended from Fishtail's peak, crossing the sky and ending in a huge glacier.  On the opposite side, the beast of Annapurna South rose like a guiding light drawing you to Annapurna Base Camp.  The afternoon clouds were rolling in at this point and quickly obscured the views, but we caught mind-boggling glimpses of Annapurna South's peaks and ridges through the mist.

If we had had more time, climbing shoes would have been a necessity.  Awesome boulders of every shape and size scatter the long stretch of valley from the M.B.C. area all the way up to A.B.C., and it was sad to look upon them with no way of enjoying their shapes to the fullest.

DAY 6: Machhapuchhre Base Camp (M.B.C) - Annapurna Base Camp (A.B.C.)
            Hike time: 3hrs

            This was the longest it's ever taken me to hike such a short distance.  We stopped to take photos practically every ten meters, so by the time we actually reached A.B.C., the clouds were already setting in.  Along with the amazing views, I tweaked my knee clearing Annapurna I in one of the jumping photos about halfway up, so after that the going was even slower.

Wow... What can I say?  We were totally blown away by the surrounding peaks.  Up at A.B.C., you are actually fully surrounded by the hugest snow and rock walls imaginable; every direction you look there is another testimony to the puny-ness of humans and the sheer, indisputable power of nature.  

It snowed that night, and we were rewarded for our efforts at sunset by clear skies (it clouded over from 12pm-5ish as usual) and amazing golden red streaks of colour touching the tip of Machhapuchhre.

I stayed up late that night and took some night photography of the white mountains against the black earth, with the starry vault as a backdrop.  It worked out pretty well, considering that I was using random piles of rocks as a tripod.  Night time is one of my favourite times in the mountains, when the snowy faces glow against the dark background.  So beautiful.

DAY 7: Annapurna Base Camp (A.B.C.) - Himalaya
           Hike time: 5hrs, 15mins

           We woke up super early on this morning to see the sunrise at A.B.C., which is one of the "things you have to do!" while you are there.  It was amazing, and cold, and we filled our camera cards and killed our batteries quickly.  We ended up staying up there until 11:30am, when the clouds rolled in, before we resigned to hiking down.  It was a wonderful morning to chilling out, enjoying the INSANE views and getting a chaco tan in the alpine meadows.  We took a little VLOG in the morning showing the full panorama as well.  It's on youtube here http://youtu.be/cBqF_9dvDT4 .

The hike down was grueling as usual, and especially brutal because of my still injured knee.  Luckily Marina reikied me every 30mins or so, which helped SO MUCH.  My knee healed perfectly from an injury that normally would have taken 4-5 days in only 3.  I'm sold.  I decided that I'll probably get reiki level 1 as well so that I can treat my knee every day and help it to heal once and for all.  I'm stoked.

DAY 8: Himalaya - Chhomrong
            Hike time: 5hrs?

            We got up early and descended out of the alpine into the jungle.  It was another joint-killing day, but we made it okay and collapsed at the Chhomrong Cottage, where Didi (the owner) is famed for her chocolate cake (it was written up as "the best chocolate cake" in Time Magazine).  We met Mindy and James there, and when we saw the rooms and had some cake, we decided to stay an extra day.  Why not?  We were both ahead of schedule, and Chhomrong was such a nice place with amazing views of Annapurna South, Hiunchuli, Annapurna III, and Machhapuchhre, from left to right.  It was definitely a good call.  We had hot showers and three of us agreed that it was actually the BEST shower we had ever had in our lives (Marina and I hadn't showered in a week due to being freezing cold all the time).  James wasn't as thrilled as the rest of us, but he had had a shower the night before, so his opinion wasn't from the same viewpoint.  It was a glorious occasion.

DAY 9:  Chhomrong - Chhomrong
             Hike time: 0hrs

             This day we just relaxed!  Wow. Not having to wake up super early to hike was wonderful.  We spend the day hanging out with Mindy and James, watching Didi and her crew cook their AMAZING food (They make the BEST lasagna, pizza, burritos, and cake of course. And probably everything on the menu we didn't try. They even make the noodles for the lasagna! And they do everything so creatively, without needing an oven! Ex: They steam the lasagna to cook it. And the cake. Crazy.) and trying to learn what we could.  We loved every minute at Didi's cute "little" cottage (she has 30 rooms or something, but it feels like just a few).  

DAY 10: Chhomrong - Ghandruk
             Hike time: 3hrs, 30mins

             This morning we woke up intending to go back the same way we came in to the Sanctuary, through Phedi, but Didi wouldn't allow us!  She basically said that we had seen that view before, can showed us another route.  Pretty cute.  Then, just as we were about to leave, she came out with a piece of cake for us to share as a farewell gift.  She's so nice!  We were already stuffed, but split between the four of us we had no trouble getting it down.  It's such good cake. 

The hiking day was easy enough, because the trail was less used, which meant that it was less stairs.  It was more like a washed out trail in BC, and went down to the valley bottom, then straight up the other side, then down again to Ghandruk.  It rained on us as we were going up the big switch backs which was actually really nice.  Ghandruk is a huge village, and we were quite culture shocked!  We found a nice guesthouse for a third cheaper than everything so far, which was nice, and had a chill evening.  

DAY 11: Ghandruk - NyaPul - Pokhara
              Hike time: 4hrs?
              Bus ride time: FOREVER

We woke up this morning to amazing mountain views and soft Tibetan music drifting lazily from the nearby monastery to our room.  The sunrise was worthy of a photo-sesh, even after having seen the mountains up close in all their glory. 

The hike down wasn't anything special, and we ended up hiking on a dirt road for a lot of the way.  At least it was flat; our knees were grateful.  

When we arrived at NyaPul, we hopped on a local bus that ended up being the craziest and longest ride EVER to Pokhara. At first we were standing on the inside of the bus, but after no time at all the bus stopped for a food break for way too long.  We headed for the real local ride - the roof.  Finally the bus left again, with all of us "securely" sitting on the roof.  It was hilarious.  We had beautiful views and fresh breezes, and the cherry on top was a group of insane village women whooping and yelling throughout the entire journey.  They had some kind of bizarre mating ritual going on; whenever they saw men working in the fields around the bus, they would call out in this screechy blend between baby birds begging for food and squawking seagulls.  At was so weird.  At one point we stopped as we went around a super sharp corner and a guy was standing at a tea shop; the girls went crazy.  As we left, the guy threw his entire remaining packet of cookies at the bus.  In a cacophony of squeals and laughter, everyone tried to catch the cookies as we sped away.  It was so funny.  Marina and I scored a cookie and enjoyed it along with the cool breeze.

I took a video of the madness.  It had died down a little at this point, but it gives you an idea. Here's the link http://youtu.be/OG5bzdfoofA .

We finally made it to Pokhara after more bus madness involving the police kicking the girls off the roof (everyone else had complied earlier when the bus guy told us that we were going through a police checkpoint) and holding us at the side of the road forever.  It's one of the many experiences traveling that you'll never fully understand.  I have no idea what really was happening... BUT we made it finally, got a hotel, got our bags that we had left behind, and collapsed in the garden of Hotel Elia, Pokhara.  We were back! 

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The mountains were so amazing, and despite stretching our budget, it was worth it a million times over.  I feel so at home there, and being right in the midst of those gigantic beasts was so humbling and powerful.  I'm making a resolution to spend as much time in the Rockies as I can when I get back home.  Sometimes I take the Canadian mountains for granted, and I intend to change that. 

Sorry if this email is too long.  Take a few days to enjoy it fully.  It also might not make total sense all the time because I wrote it over the course of several days, so forgive me if some of my descriptions are too similar or something!  Wow, I have to say I'm glad to have it done.  We'll definitely try to be more consistent from now on (although we had no choice, being in the mountains)! 

Now is a time for hanging out with friends!  Mindy and James are meeting up with us again in Kathmandu tomorrow, and then our friends Shauna and Daniel from our home town in Canada are coming the day after, and then my parents arrive a few days after that!  And during this entire time, Jazzmandu is happening here, which is a huge jazz music festival.  Life is good!  We had some complications with our Indian visa so we're going to leave India after one month with my parents to a totally new country!  We're thinking somewhere where there are beaches and surfing....... Bo pen yang!

Peace and love from Nepal!

Orion (& Marina)

Sunday 7 October 2012

21 Days in Pokhara

October 7th, 2012 - Kathmandu, Nepal

Hello everyone!!!

  My my it sure has been a long time.  Hmmmm..  Where did we leave off...  Ah yes!  Pokhara.

  So Pokhara... We ended up staying there for 3 weeks.  3 WEEKS!  Even we were surprised when we realized how long it had been.  What can we say?  We found a good place and got sucked in!  Perhaps it is part of our human nature to settle when we find comfort.

  And we did find comfort!  We had the BEST food (and cheapest) in all Pokhara, an amazing homely room, our own porch and front lawn with a view that took no trouble getting used to: a shimmering, crystal lake and towering, gleaming mountains. Every morning the cooler air would lift the monsoon clouds and the mountains would glow pink from the sunrise and we would just sit outside and feast our eyes.  Then after our eye feast, we would feast our stomachs with Dal Bhat.  Dal Bhat is the traditional Nepali meal that EVERYONE eats all the time.  It is rice, dal (pressure cooked lentil soupy amazing thing), curried vegetables, and a raw vegetable salad of some sort.  Our hotel owner, called Maila, made us amazing dal and curry, and supplied us with fresh sliced cucumbers and carrots and steamed juicy spinach, all freshly picked straight from his garden!!!  Organic!!  The spinach was so amazing.. when we ate it the juice would dribble down our chins.. YUMMMMMMMM.   We still miss that meal everyday.. 

  Anyway a few more things happened in Pokhara besides relaxing and eating, I swear.  We were just healing up our fresh tattoos, and getting what most people with multiple tattoos seem to get: an addiction.  Heh...  We were brainstorming and imagining what ELSE we could get and where and we were all excited.  And then, I will tell you a story to disprove any of you doubting in your believe of the Law of Attraction.  So here we are talking about tattoos and getting super excited and wanting more SO BAD when we just happen to run into a group of people on the street with the sweetest freakin tattoos EVER.  They were so awesome that we walked past them, then turned around and went back just to tell them how sweet their tattoos were.  It was a group of 5 or 6 people and they had all tattoos that sort of matched and were actually the best we had ever seen.  They said they had all got them done by the same guy!  He was visiting Pokhara apparently and tattooing alot of people.  "Well that's cool," we thought and continued on our way, and soon forgot all about it.

  Then the next time we were in town we ran into some friends we had a met in Kathmandu.  We were stoked to see them and they invited us to come to this open mic jammy blues bar with them that night, so we went.  It turned out their group of friends were the same people with all the sweet tattoos, AND there were more of them.  Probably like 10 or more people all hanging out in a group, all with the BEST TATTOOS EVER.  One girl had this aaammaazziinnggg design up her whole back and then down one arm.  I wanted one...  We inquired to a few people about the tattoos.  They said the artist was very specific in that he liked it to be HIS design and he was difficult to work with, as well as the fact that he didn't speak any English.  They also said he used only 1 tiny needle in his tattoo gun which made it like 3x as painful.  (Normal tattoo artists use needles with like 9 or more tiny needles on the end.)  We decided that this mysterious man, although amazingly talented, was not for us.

  That night at home I couldn't stop thinking about it!  And I suddenly decided that I changed my mind and I did want a tattoo.  We had no idea if he even had time to do us, and we only knew his hotel, but none the less we set out the next day to try and find him.  Once I had a made up my mind that I wanted a tattoo, Orion realized that he too wanted one!!! He had a bit more of a plan than me, but we were both very open.  We met with the artist and his family by sheer chance and they agreed to tattoo us in a couple days' time.

  So that was that!  I got a "smallish" henna design on my lower back.  Its BEAUTIFUL.  So beautiful in fact, that as soon as he finished and I looked in the mirror, I asked if he had another day's time and decided to get it extended up onto my shoulder!  And now its done!  I'm so happy with it!  He did the whole thing free hand, just drawing out a few things to map on my back using a child's felt marker.  And it hurt.  SO MUCH.  In total, my tattoo took almost 9 hours (split up in 2 days thankfully).  When he did my upper back it was actually the most painful thing I've ever experienced, and I'm not even exaggerating!!!  But as soon as I looked in the mirror, it was worth it!  I can't wait to post some pictures to show everyone.

  Orion got an amazing sun on his shoulder with "prana" (life force) in sanskrit in the centre.  The sun is completely made up of geometric designs and patterns and it's so complex and detailed and AMAZING.  I shall explain a bit about Mau (pronounced like Mow) and his art.

  His calls his business "Spiritual Tattoo," and every pattern and shape he incorporates into his designs is from some ancient culture or other and has a spiritual significance.  Geometry tattoos, like Orion's, are full of detailed and tiny shapes and patterns.  Every single pattern has a meaning and an explanation and a place it is from.  Some are protection symbols for self or family, some represent different aspects of evolution, some tell a story, and more.  A geometric tattoo, therefore, does not only LOOK like it's from some ancient tribal culture, it IS!  And that makes the art that much more special.  In order to gain knowledge about all these different symbols, Mau, who is originally from Chile, traveled the world and studied different peoples of the past and present.  For example, Orion has these cave symbols in his tattoo that tell a story and offer protection.  They are from an ancient tribe on Easter Island.  In order to learn how to write with these characters, Mau literally hiked out to the caves and copied the symbols off the walls that he found, until he was able to read it, like a language.  HOW COOL. 

  He has a wife named Maria from Sweden, and they have two kids together.  Though Mau only speaks Spanish, Maria speaks Swedish, Spanish, AND English, and she translates very efficiently.  That way it wasn't actually that hard to communicate what we wanted.  Mau has two epic dreadlocks for a beard on his chin that are so long they reach his hips!! CRAZY.  Their kids are only about 5 and 8 and they're fluent in English and Spanish and know a fair bit of Swedish.  Genius children!  The whole family lives in Pai, Thailand where Mau has set up his business.  They lived in Goa, India as well for around 6 years with a business set up there.  They travel to other countries sometimes (like they did to Nepal) to explore a bit and spread the business.  Its so easy for them, because as soon as anyone sees one of Mau's tattoos, they ask, "WHERE DID YOU GET THAT?!?!" followed by, "How can I get one?"  Hence us being convinced to get tattoos after seeing all those people with the amazing tattoos at the bar!  Maria likes to jam and play music and we hung out with their family a bit when we weren't getting tattoos by going to little restaurants and bars to jam.  Mau is the quiet artist type and prefers to sit with the kids.  All in all they are AWESOME people and we enjoyed getting to know them.  We are SO HAPPY with our new tattoos!!

  So after that, we retreated back up to our hotel again to heal yet AGAIN.  But FIRST we found out a certain event and bought tickets, not knowing at ALL what to expect.  The event was called "Psychedelic Travelers Gathering!"  It appeared to be a RAVE for travelers!! See, if this was back home, as soon as I saw that, I would know it was amazing, and wouldn't hesitate to buy tickets.  But this isn't home, this is Nepal.  And who KNOWS if they even understand what a rave should be like.  And who knows if I could even be free enough to dance without pressure from creepy local men.  But the thing I miss most about home that never gets satisfied from traveling is dancing at hippie gatherings, and I just couldn't bear to pass up a potential chance for that, even if it could all turn out to be nothing.  

  So fast forward a week and its time for the festival weekend.  We show up at the meeting point and are pleasantly surprised to find a lot of other hippie type travelers waiting, as well as our same friends from Kathmandu.  We hopped on the buses, and after a very carsick ride, they dumped us at a random gas station in the middle of nowhere.  We were very confused.  Then some jeeps showed up and it was clear we were supposed to get on them, so we did.  The jeeps took off, and next thing we knew we were turning off the highway onto a dirt road.  Then we started off-roading...  So we were all clinging on for dear life and driving straight up a mountain, when we reached a random Hindu temple built in the middle of nowhere really, surrounding by a ton of locals and screaming children.   There was no stage, no tents, no field, no nothing.   We unloaded none the less, and they told us to set up camp on this random plateau next to a stinky swamp.  So we started taking out our tents that we had rented for the occasion, but suddenly they yelled at us to stop.  So we were NOT supposed to set up camp here...  We were so confused, but we put our tents away again.  FINALLY a random traveler who happened to speak Nepali got a somewhat clear story.  This was the "chill stage" (though there was no stage) and the "Main Stage" where we were going to be camping and where everything else would be was at the TOP of the mountain.  Like actually at the TOP, and apparently it was a 2 hour hike away.  We were supposed to wait down here for "only a hour" for them to get set up, and then jeeps would drive us up the rest of the way.  We became almost MORE confused.  Why was there a separate stage if it was TWO HOURS away from the campsite and main stage?!?  Who the HELL would hike down there?  And why couldn't we just go up there now and set up camp?  Why did we need to wait down HERE?  Some people got frustrated and impatient and decided to hike up the hill anyway.  The locals promptly chased the down yelling "HEY! STOP!" or something similar in Nepali if they spoke no English.  Most of the travelers were rounded up and forced to return but some escaped.  In the mean time they had set up a very thorough beer tent with a freezer and SO MUCH BEER.  We became more confused.  If we were camping so far away, who would want to walk that far just to buy a beer?? We let it slide for now, and decided to go with the flow.  FOUR HOURS LATER we were still waiting, spread out in the shade reading or sleeping or some people pulling out the drugs already.  Some of the travelers who had escaped and made it up the mountain returned and told us there was nothing up there at all, so they had decided to come back down.

  EVENTUALLY after who knows how long, the first jeep took the first group of people up the mountain.  We got on the second.  The ride was terrifying.  If I thought the way to the first camp was off-roading, then I don't know what one would call the second stretch.  It was switch back after switch back, and they were sooo narrow that the jeep couldn't make the turn in one go.  Often 3 point turns were necessary, which was terrifying because an inch further and we'd be falling off a cliff.  At one point we got stuck mid turn and the jeep ALMOST tipped.  We were stuck at like a 45 degree angle for a moment of terror and then we accelerated to relative safety.  When we finally reached the top, we were short of breath and white knuckled.  A couple people applauded the driver, haha.  So we set out to look for a spot to camp.

  Unfortunately the mountain had to be carved out to make room for the festival.  We went to the camping site which used to be jungle until someone had gone through it with a machete to hack it to pieces.  It didn't make it any more campable stupidly.  It just made it a jungle with alot of short trees.  TERRIBLE planning #2.  We managed to find a little cliff with bumps that were only huge instead of ridiculously huge with thorns.  We put the tent up and shuffled it around trying to find a flat spot.  We didn't, and gave up, choosing a huge lump in the lower back rather than a huger lump in the neck.  Then came the dancing!

  DANCING.  Oh how I love Thee and give thanks for Thine existance!  Oh how Thou dost fill mine soul yearnings with joy!!  But actually. Within the first SECONDS of dancing, the music pounding and crazy lights flashing, all the craziness and disorganization of the festival fell away and it was GLORIOUS.  After my complaints of restraint in the rigid Muslim city of Srinagar, there I was wearing a TANK TOP and a flowy skirt and spinning around and feeling wonderful.  I was and still am truly grateful. :)

  All that said, and my gratitude expressed,  I will offer a few complaints, mostly for comedy's sake

  First of all, the music was all trance.  Trance is pretty good actually, but there is a fine line and I find, for my taste, it can be overstepped easily.  Trance music is a continual throbbing bass 1,2,3,4,1,2,3,4, etc that continues constantly without ceasing for the entire song (or entire night for this occasion).  That is all fine and dandy as long as the rest of the song is interesting enough with enough changes and breakdowns and what have you.  But often, the darker side of trance is expressed, which I find slightly soul sucking.  The thumping duh duh duh duh duh duh duh duh on every beat continues but with NOTHING else added on top of it except a few terrifying sounds.  Sometimes demons talking, or weird echoing and screeching and creaking, like a typical haunted house soundtrack, even a few screams!  We fled to our tent to escape these songs.  SENDING LOVE to the AMAZING DJs we have become so used to back home.  GRATITUDE. And that said, we were grateful for the music.  At least it wasn't the screeching, shreeking voices and wailing terrible synthesizers of the low budget "traditional" music of India and Nepal, or the horrid repetitiveness of the soul-less cover bands of Kathmandu and Pokhara.

  Secondly, although the festival was 90% travellers, and our hippie festival culture strongly overwhelmed their conservative opressed feminism culture, there was still a few crowds of Nepali men ready to creep hard.  The cultural barrier.  Women expressing themselves freely through dance is something quite foreign to most Nepali men (and to ALL Indian men I swear.. Nepal is muccchhhh better in that respect than India).  Many a time I would have my eyes closed, lost in the dancing trance and moving freely to the music, only to open my eyes and find a literal WALL of Nepali men surrounding me, a beer in one hand, the other hand in a fist and pumping the sky (and often holding a cigarette), all watching with that terribly creepy smile on their faces.  YUCK.  A slight buzz kill.  In those cases I was infinitely grateful for Orion, who would let me drag him to dance in whatever spot he was most needed to act as a barrier between me and the creepy men.  And he would stare and them and dance uncomfortably close at them and they would be scared away.  VICTORY!  What a guy!

  So it was no Komasket or Fandango or whatever, but it was FUN and we had a really FUN time. We met a super sweet Canadian guy from Quebec named Philippe, who told us about, and showed us pictures of, this AMAZINGLY sweet week long music festival on the border of Quebec and Ontario in August.  So we want to be there for it next year. :)  It's called Open Mind Festival.

  Anyway so after the festival we hopped on the roof of a ridiculously full jeep and somehow made it safely down the mountain and onto the local bus back to Pokhara.  The ride down the mountain on the jeep was sooooo fun!  I got to lounge so epicly on this towering pile of bags, and duck when branches whipped by and cling on when we almost tipped on every switchback, and hold on to other people's bag to keep them from flying off the jeep.  FUN.  So back in Pokhara we retreated to our favorite home for 2 nights and then headed off to Kathmandu where we are now.

  I forgot to mention one thing!  I've been giving a lot of thought to what I want to do with my life. YES!  Music is definitely one thing!  Fear not, lovely people.  But I also have a lot of interest in energy healing, natural medicine, those types things, and randomly, WHALES.  I LOVE whales.  Not sure of any careers that incorporate all those things, so I decided to focus only on the first two first.  So I read a book on Reiki and decided I wanted to get it.  Yet another attribute to the powers of the Law of Attraction, after finishing the book, I just so happened to meet a Reiki "Master" (the name for someone who has been initiated into all 3 levels of Reiki.. Does not mean they're enlightened or a guru or anything silly.. It just means they can initiate other people) and got initiated to Reiki Level 1! So now I can successfully channel the Reiki energy for healing of myself and others and even objects like broken electronics or sad plants or whatever.  I've done a few treatments on Orion who said he can feel the energy and everything, which is sweet because it means I'm not just imagining it, and who promptly gets so relaxed as to start snoring.  The whole thing seems very relaxing!  When we get home I hope to have Reiki 2 and a few other courses and things under my belt.  My DREAM is to be able to get a job doing these things and be done with the world of crappy low paying jobs FOREVER!  I'm thinking of getting my Yoga Teacher Training right now, but it is very expensive, so it depends on my some school funds being available or not.  We shall see!!

  Anyway so we are now we're back in Kathmandu, getting our Indian visa sorted out for our re-entrance to India in November.  Exciting!  After this, if there is time we hope to do some sort of trek in the Annapurnas.  But we've begun to accept there may not be time because apparently you have to wait quite a bit for the visas to get sorted out, and I want to take a course or two at this Naturopathy centre we found, but we shall see.  Who knows what will happen. :)

  So we are sending love and gratitude to all you brilliant beings shining your lights back home.  And on this Thanksgiving we urge you all to think of things that you are grateful for!!  We tend to overlook this, yet when we do it, it makes our life TEN TIMES BETTER.  So here's a challenge:  Grab a pen and paper.  Write down, without stopping, for 10 minutes, things that you are grateful for.  It can be the smallest things or the biggest things, it doesn't matter.  Then reread your list and feel how HAPPY it makes you feel.  Then smile!!  That's it.  :)

PEACE, LOVE, OM,

Marina (and Orion)